Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Came across these quotes which are real sad and thus real nice


Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love. Neil Gaiman quotes


The saddest thing in life is loving someone who used to love you.


“Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering.”

Paulo Coelho quotes



6 comments:

ah boon said...

The saddest thing in life is loving someone who used to love you.


This is sad... but not the saddest. Ever heard that, ' the saddest thing in life is Loving someone who is just beside you and he/she did not treat you differently.'

Its like, the person u realli love treats you like brother/sister and you are not different from others. It hurts you as you cant tell him/her your feelings, lest the freindship stops growing.

Love is a mystery. Never try learning it. (:

Anonymous said...

yea..i agree..

a guy and a gal who get along and understand one another well is most likely unable to be tog..it's quite a contradiction.. is love true when the guy understands u a lot but u don feel ur heart beat faster or is it true when ur heart beats faster and you try to appear nice in front of him?

Sui Generis said...

Hmm.. ah boon.. yes.. it's indeed sad.. I think all very sad la, no pt comparing which one is sadder, haha...

Hmm... As for the learning of love... I dun think one can help it, can we? I mean... this sort of thing like love... it's a damn sneaky fella... it sneaks up from ur behind, and before you noe it, it already got you...

So my dear fren, i think u gotta watch my back for me just in case I got a sneak attack from love... thks

Sui Generis said...

haha, hmm.. it's hard to determine whether it is true or not, anonymous...

In your first case, you could try 'losing' the guy and see if you missed him, perhaps you didn't realize how much he was to you.

In the second case, perhaps it's just mere infatuation, perhaps it's just being blinded by the illusion of a certain someone.

Hmm.. tat's y to prevent this sort of thing frm happening... I think if you like the person.. u sorta outta express it out... mayb nt so explicitly.... but dun make the relationship too comfortable till it's no different frm frenz.... Well, that's wat i think la...

ah boon said...

ooppsss... didnt meant to compare but its my personal tots... sorry dude..

what i meant is to juz let love happens naturally.

smile

Sui Generis said...

Haha, np, nice to hear ur comments... seriously wasn't criticizing u in anyway, ;p.

Hmm.. let love happen naturally.. haha.. sounds gd...